HOME COOKING has a way of connecting us with a purer version of ourselves. Before the world left us all scratched, somebody loved us and prepared food for us. We guess that鈥檚 the magic of Milky Way Caf茅, where each dish brings us back to our mother鈥檚 table, when nothing yet could go wrong.

It鈥檚 not just our memories that Milky Way Caf茅 taps into, but the collective memory of the nation. The restaurant has been around since 1962, and many people have fond memories of the era: before the smog, before the skyscrapers, before the traffic; before everything that had come to pass since then.

Chef J Gamboa, son of Milky Way founder Julie Araullo Gamboa, talked with 大象传媒 earlier this week in the newly renovated Milky Way branch in Rockwell, the second; the first being the bigger Milky Way in Makati鈥檚 Arnaiz Ave. (though some still call it by its former name, Pasay Road). The restaurant鈥檚 concept is even older than he is: he was born in the purple of his parents鈥 success in 1971, almost a decade after they first opened Milky Way Turo-Turo (literally point-point, which means cafeteria-style service) across Malaca帽ang. Educated in the US, he and his siblings have since expanded into Spanish, Thai, and Japanese cuisines, all the restaurants located beside the Arnaiz Ave. branch.

At its peak, his mother had 15 Milky Way branches across Metro Manila. Now, there are only two, while his cousins have branches that share the brand name, but not exactly the same fare. See, the restaurant started as an ice cream factory that was bought by his grandfather from two Spanish ladies who opened it up immediately after the war. His grandfather gave his eight children permission to open up their own independent restaurants, with the condition that none of them would go into business together. So at some point in time, there were several Milky Way Caf茅s owned and operated independently by various Araullo siblings. Mr. Gamboa says that the only thing they all have in common now is the ice cream, which they provide for everyone.

Mr. Araullo said that his favorite dish is their ox-tongue asado, stewed in tomato sauce, leaving a cut of meat that is almost buttery-soft. Other selections include the Bistek Tagalog (beef cooked in soy sauce and onions) and the Kare-kare (meat and vegetables stewed in a peanut-based sauce) which one might argue appears on all tables in the Philippines anyway.

So why do people come to them for food that鈥檚 accessible to nearly everyone? He gave the example of their Crispy Hito (catfish), which they would have at least once a week at his late mother鈥檚 house. 鈥淲e kind of taught people how to eat it.鈥 A few years ago, a lady who was a loyal customer approached him, praised him for the fish, but balked at the prices, declaring that she could make it cheaper at home. Mr. Gamboa taught this lady, whom he fondly called one of his titas, how to make it the Milky Way way. She came back and said that she failed in replicating the recipe, and went back to ordering it.

鈥淚 don鈥檛 think people have cooks like before. There aren鈥檛 those big families anymore, but people still want to eat home cooking.鈥

In fact, over at the Rockwell branch, families send their help over at lunchtime for takeout, he said. 鈥淭hey have time to make it? I don鈥檛 think so.鈥

I could write lines and lines of prose about how good everything was, but it鈥檚 hard to do justice to recipes older than this reporter, and all of them bringing back a fond memory of a time gone by. Of course, there鈥檚 also the factor that almost everything in the menu is made in-house: from the 20 ingredients that go into the halo-halo (a shaved ice desert) not counting the milk, to the ice creams and the bagoong (fermented fish paste).

Mr. Gamboa recalls that as a child, he was placed on ice cream duty. 鈥淭he flavors are still the same, if not improved. It will still taste like Milky Way Pinoy food.鈥

Mr. Gamboa says that the secret to surviving that long is, 鈥淲e鈥檙e here everyday… making sure that everybody鈥檚 getting the food that they deserve.鈥

This is the main reason why they haven鈥檛 seriously entertained expanding abroad, bringing comforting Filipino food to the migrant population. 鈥淲e won鈥檛 be able to deliver the same level of service,鈥 he said. 鈥淗ere na lang. Fun pa (Let鈥檚 keep it here. It鈥檚 fun).鈥

Some of the strongest restaurants still around from before the 1990s are built around comfort food. As we鈥檝e said before, one can argue that these are all available at home anyway, but what makes them all, including Milky Way, still stand? 鈥淲e have the strongest cultural connection to that cuisine.

鈥淵ou鈥檙e going to eat that, no matter what.鈥 鈥 JL Garcia