Lifestyle Upgrade 101

Ever wondered how people end up being millionaires?聽 Thomas Stanley and William聽Danko聽gave us an inside look in the聽thought process聽of聽1,000 actual millionaires over a 20鈥憏ear period in their iconic personal finance book, 鈥淭he Millionaire Next Door.鈥

Here are our favorite takeaways from that book:

Millionaires believe that financial independence is more important than displaying social status.

The truly wealthy聽are not out there to impress. They need not display their聽new cars,聽latest聽appliances,聽and most updated聽gadgets聽just to let others know how well鈥憃ff they are.聽聽Buying expensive things is not about the image it will build but the quality it provides. Think about a product鈥檚 durability and longevity instead of merely the brand. After all, it鈥檚 better not to be perceived as rich and actually have money, than to look rich but not actually have much.

Millionaires聽live within their means.

Living within your means is pretty simple and practical, but some people struggle with this because of their habits. Spending much more than what you have鈥攏o matter how big your salary, commission or dividend is鈥攚ill still leave you broke. Practice frugality in managing your personal expenses. This isn鈥檛 to say聽that聽you should be聽unreasonably聽kuripot聽or extremely cheap. What this means is you have to be more discerning with your purchases. Weigh your options and save for more important things.

In doing business, living within your means takes a different meaning. It鈥檚 not merely limiting your spending to what you have but knowing the potential reach of your money. Find聽ways on how to achieve something,聽and聽not just聽live聽within聽your聽means.聽聽For example,聽if you聽want to acquire a property or get into a business, find ways to purchase it or聽to聽get it started聽instead of just waiting for your聽savings to be enough before starting.

Millionaires聽become wealthy without much support from their parents. They even train their kids and other family members to be more self鈥憇ufficient.

Eighty鈥憄ercent聽of the wealthy, according to Stanley and聽Danko,聽are聽first聽generation. Meaning, they did not acquire the wealth聽by inheriting it聽from聽their parents.聽They themselves made it happen. If your mind is trained, you can just make money again even after losing聽it. But, if聽money聽came聽from your parents,聽you cannot gain back what you鈥檝e lost.聽If you鈥檙e not financially literate, then聽it鈥檚 difficult to bounce back.

What鈥檚 even better about millionaires is that the learning is passed on. The knowledge that they鈥檝e gained is shared with family members and children. They, too, end up being financially literate and more self鈥憇ufficient.

Millionaires聽allocate their time, energy and money efficiently in ways conducive to building wealth.

It鈥檚 not enough that you鈥檙e rich now. Finding ways to make you and your money grow聽is a聽continuous process. Up until today, we聽keep learning from seminars and classes we attend.聽Before we invest, we study what we鈥檙e getting into. Currently, we鈥檙e into classes and seminars on value investing, property investing and online business.聽This is precisely聽why the rich聽gets聽richer:聽they are financially literate and do not stop learning more.

Millionaires聽choose the right occupation where they can be self鈥慹mployed or business owners.

The book also distinguishes聽Successful Wealth Accumulator, Average Wealth Accumulator and Under鈥慳chievers.聽Under鈥慳chievers spend household expenditure proportionate to their annual income while Successful Wealth Accumulators have pre鈥慸etermined annual budgets they operate on and limit their spending to be less than their annual聽income. Most people think that wealth is the same as income, but聽it really聽isn鈥檛. Making聽good income and spending it all do not聽get聽you any聽wealthier. You are just living high.聽鈥淲ealth is what you accumulate, not what you spend.鈥

Millionaires聽are proficient in targeting market opportunities.

Combining your financial literacy聽with聽timely and appropriate聽networking聽will land you good market opportunities. Millionaires聽have an eye to spot market opportunities which separate the trained investor from all the rookie investors.聽It鈥檚 a skill you learn over time and one that is only achievable by immersing yourself more and more into the world of money.

Most people choose the path to wealth by generating high incomes, but this not the only thing that makes a millionaire. Millionaires聽know how to leverage the value of聽their income stream by studying聽their lifestyle expenditure and investing the balance based on their studies and research.聽The key here really is to understand that the road to becoming a millionaire聽is built on a series of sound and reasonable financial decisions based on聽frugality, discipline, sacrifice, and hard,聽smart work.


Clarissa Seri帽a鈥慸e la Paz and Sharon W. Que are financial literacy advocates and the bestselling authors of 鈥淚 Wish They Taught Money in School鈥 and 鈥淢oney Grows on Trees.鈥 Check out their books at聽.